Exclusive Interview with Grief Recovery Specialist, Dawn Ford

Many events in life cause significant emotional loss which puts people through the stages of grief. What happens when someone is unable to come to terms with a significant emotional loss?

That is when Dawn Ford steps in. As a licensed Grief Recovery Specialist she has helped people struggling to move on following a significant emotional loss in their lives by supporting her clients on the Grief Recovery Method Programme.

How the Grief Recovery Method Differs from Conventional Bereavement and Grief Counselling

Holistic in its approach to treating all aspects of the individual dealing with grief, this supportive programme, the ‘Grief Recovery Method’, appeals to Dawn who follows the structure but tailors the delivery to make it as relevant and respectful as she can for each of her clients.

The focus is on emotional connections as the client’s experiences of loss are shared beginning with early memories right through to present day.The client is required to do reflective work in order to resolve the feelings harboured from each loss. A programme handbook is used, alongside her teaching, that provides practical, mental, and emotional tools which can better equip the individual to handle future losses.

The History of Dawn Ford’s Grief Recovery Business

Dawn found an advertisement for the Grief Recovery Method Programme online in September 2016. She instantly felt an emotional connection with the programme and booked her place on the course. At that time, she had already been providing a bespoke keepsake service for a couple of years and was excited about the Grief Recovery Method training. She was keen to explore the two supportive services and combining them wherever she felt they could be appropriate or beneficial..

As a children’s bereavement volunteer Dawn helped out at a residential camp, where a dozen or more young children came together, all sharing the stories of their beloved ones who had died. On returning home she created her first keepsake – Dawn made drawings of a soft toy dog, which belonged to her son and her daughter’s first ever doll. Dawn then recreated these drawings out of her children’s favourite clothes that she had kept stored away for years. She felt liberated and at the same time knew that she had created something of real emotional and sentimental worth – a cherished keepsake for each of her children..

Training for the Educational and Wellbeing programme was over 4 days. The most emotional and intense four-day course Dawn had ever attended. . Initial doubts were present, but once training completed — Dawn’s approach to grief and emotional loss transformed forever.

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Dawn in her consultation room

How Does Someone Know if Grief Counselling is Right for Them?

Grief counselling is not recommended or necessary for everyone who has experienced a loss. However, many people that have a difficult time accepting the loss and those with “unresolved grief” stand to gain the most from The Grief Recovery Programme

In particular, Dawn’s approach helps those with unresolved grief, when the person could not do or say something before the person died, and they wish they had. She explains the impact of unresolved grief:

“Sometimes that (unresolved grief) causes the emotions to go round and round like an everlasting carousel. Sometimes the relationship has been loving, sometimes it has been unloving. Both are painful losses.”

Grief Recovery Specialist Shares Expert Advice for the Bereaved

The intensity of emotions experienced during grief are often unknown until someone goes through it. Dawn explains regarding emotions experienced during a grieving period, “I guess I would say there is no right or wrong way to feel, no right or wrong way to grieve. It is a powerful, earth-shattering emotional state and normal and natural.

“When we love, and we lose — it hurts, and it hurts so much.

“The most painful thing for me to hear from my clients are stories of insensitive remarks, criticisms, suggestions of how they should act, of how they should be feeling, of how they should be ‘over it by now’. Tragically the society we live in does not know how to act when friends or relatives are sad or heartbroken.” We asked Dawn to share her advice to someone in bereavement:

“Be confident to tell people how you really feel. Try not to ‘pretend’ everything is OK when it isn’t. Be honest with yourself and with others. Allow yourself the time to grieve, do not rush it.”

Holding close the ‘buddy’ Dawn created out of the remnants that were left after she had made her dear son, daughter and husband a keepsake each. She absolutely cherishes this ‘buddy’, when she holds it close and hug it she feels her near, hears hear voice, her laugh and sees her colourful hair and stunning fashion sense. Memories to keep forever.”

What the Future has in Store for Dawn Ford

Considering the valuable experience and insights Dawn has gained and how her knowledge benefits those dealing with grief, we asked if she ever considered publishing a book. She feels privileged to be on this supportive journey that has given her a greater awareness on emotional loss and grief. One day she would love to combine these insights with feedback from her clients and some of her own drawings into a book.

How a Grief Recovery Specialist Views Cremation Diamonds

At Heart In Diamond, we work with people who are currently experiencing grief. Our services allow people to send in cremated ashes or hair of a loved one and have the carbon extracted and then turned into a diamond. Clients choose from over 500 jewellery settings, and their customised memorial diamond jewellery is delivered to their doorstep. Effectively, they can turn their deceased loved one into diamonds.

We wanted to know how Dawn feels about the service we provide. She told us she thinks:

“The service you offer with the memorial diamonds is wonderful, a unique way to remember a loved one. I have a friend whose two dogs sadly died. She was utterly bereft. Her husband had jewellery created out of their ashes. I know she treasures those pieces.”

This black & white cushion has a photograph stitched on to it of her daughter Alice and her beloved late cat Arnie. Dawn made it from dear Arnie’s cat blanket. This keepsake cushion now resides on Alice’s bed.

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